I let my mind wander...it never came back....silk sheets...broken hearts...platinum orgasms....until we love again....Art is about those who have the courage to use bits of reality to get us to see reality in light of a new reality...
This is my reality...#2fingers...#OneGod.
Change begins in ME
Why is it so hard to start and hold a conversation OUTSIDE of a social networking site nowadays? Whether face-face or thru the phone via calls or texts. Its like everybody searches for an excuse not to reply or contact a person back and “Social” sites are always to blame. You can’t get to know a person any more because of this, or the person that you think you know isn’t the same person on those sites. so there’s a gap or a disconnect in trying to really get to know them. I just find it really weird that GOOD conversations are this hard to have now. You go out to clubs or on dates or just kicking shit and everyone is focused on people that AREN’T in front of them.
I think we are losing ourselves as well in these sites as well, but at the same times a lot of us find out who we are as well. I know it has helped me see some things in myself I may not have realized until much later. We realize things about ourselves and about the people that we knew before these sites or the people that we THOUGHT we knew before these sites. Which is why we can’t get to know each other OUTSIDE of these sites. Now don’t jump the gun I love social sites as much as the next person. I just love REAL interactions even more. because they are REAL.
People are VERY good at putting on fronts for these sites that it makes getting to meet them or know them outside of it difficult because 89% of ya’ll are nothing like the way you are on a social site off of it.
People are out here catfishing their ENTIRE personality lol, and people fall for it all day everyday. We wonder why that person who was SO entertaining or dope on that site is so dry or mundane once its off the site. or that the person is really troubled. (shit happens).
I just really wish we could all enjoy each other’s company on and off of the internet. too many parties and events and gatherings and MOMENTS in life are spent telling people who aren’t there whats going on instead of enjoying that particular moment with the people that are there.
that’s pretty much all I have to say on the matter for now. the conversation could go on and on….about how to have a REAL conversation lol.